Things that prevent you from getting a GF/BF

[superheel]

Originally Posted by cridgit001

"Janice, I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced,
awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering, "Do I have food on my face? Am I eating? Am I talking too much? Are they talking enough? Am I interested? I'm not really interested. Should I play like I'm interested? But I'm not that interested, but I think she might be interested. But do I want to be interested? But now she's not interested." So now, all of sudden I'm... I'm starting to get interested. And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door? 'Cause then it's awkward, it's like "Well, good night." Do you do like the ass-out hug? Where you like... you hug each other like this, and the ass sticks out because you're trying not to get too close. Or do you go right in and just kiss 'em on the lips or don't kiss 'em at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation and all the while you're just really wondering, "Are we gonna get hopped enough to make some bad decisions?" And perhaps play a little game called "Just the Tip." Just for a second, just to see how it feels,- or "Ouch Ouch, You're on My Hair."

I believe that describes your feeling.

Lol ,I think I get it. But really, I enjoy just being friends with girls at the moment. And having a girlfriend means alot of commitment, something i dont want for right now. But yeah, that thing you said, really describes me.

[americaneaglelover]

Well, I've been taken for like 7 months, but while I was single, I realized that I had more time to do stuff. Now, don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend, but what was preventing me from getting someone was my used to be snobby attitude and my nasty wannabe cool lifestyle. He helped me change and he made me see that life isn't about name brands and stuff. I still love my Japanese stuff, Oh, don't get me wrong, he likes that I'm multicultural. ^.^ Anyway, If I was single, I think it would be my personality that would keep me back.>.> I'm ashamed to admit that.

[Asakura]

Honestly, body image is a serious problem for me. I'm a fat guy, plain and simple. I'm doing everthing I can to rectify that situation, 40lbs down, 120 to go I used to be about 320 now I'm around 280.

But that really keeps me from getting romantically involved with anyone, I;m not trying to garner sympathy, just telling the truth. And before anyone asks, yes I do exersise regularly (I push grocery carts at Wally world for 8 hours a day plus Martial Arts workouts) And I do diet. I am losing weight, but the ladies don't seem to swoon over the 50 in waistline.

[Yuna7780]

Hmmm... I think it's because I'm too outgoing. Also, I don't want to ruin any current friendships I have with some people right now. There are a few cute guys I talk and hang out with, but I don't want to ask them out because I don't want to lose our friendship.

I also need to dress like a girl more often, but I don't feel comfortable in a lot of popular clothing girls wear nowadays...

[Nki]

I used to be on a relationship... Since 2005 till March 2008.... 3 year of my life... and then I open my e-mail... and there was that Fucking message saying GoodBye... FUCK! 3 years people!! and she fucking hide behind the screen to finish it?
Dem... I`ll never be in a relationship anymore... she was my first love...
Now I´m 24... and I talk to girls using myspace... but I´ll never be into that again... EVER.

[cridgit001]

Originally Posted by Asakura

(I push grocery carts at Wally world for 8 hours a day plus Martial Arts workouts)

Wait, Wally World is a real place? Like from the movie, Vacation?

Also, my paragraph quote was from wedding crashers, just a note.

[Saffron]

Nki: That is really bad. It sounds like she did not tell you the reason. I can understand why you wont do that again. I had my heartbroken too so I understand. He cheated on me constantly but I could not take it no more. Then he just left me for someone I knew very well. I never want to be hurt like that again. I think you might find a nice girl one day who wont let you down.

[Trouble]

I can't see a girl in the eyes because I blush and then stammer a bit
That's basically it. You'd think someone like me, who has had many offers to be someone's boyfriend before, wouldn't have any trouble with this O_o

[yukiNnight]

first of all my friends said that i am too picky yeah i like people but i lose interest sometimes. and serious sometime having a relationship sucks cuz u get sad over it and it takes to much off ur time but right now i'm ok being single lol.

[yukiNnight]

Originally Posted by Trouble

I can't see a girl in the eyes because I blush and then stammer a bit
That's basically it. You'd think someone like me, who has had many offers to be someone's boyfriend before, wouldn't have any trouble with this O_o

awwwwww that is soooooooo darn cute!