Girl help - Page 4

superheel · (#31 (**permalink**))

All you have to do is quit thinking that you are a loser. It's not that you can't do it, it's because you are not trying to do it.

KUNIO · (#32 (**permalink**))

I am trying don't you see! I mean I really am, it just does not work out ever. I did not give up, I wont, just I am a loser. Even my BEST fucking friend calls me a loser.

KurtFu22 · (#33 (**permalink**))

OMG!!!! i just want to give u a big hug!!! awwwwwwww ure not dumb and i know you'll say i dont understand that your brain says your dumb but, as a JF friend i'm telling you that you are not dumb and you will be an awesome guy who gets all the babes

SHAD0W · (#34 (**permalink**))

Some friends you got dude..

SephirothVVC · (#35 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Originally Posted by KUNIO

I am trying don't you see! I mean I really am, it just does not work out ever. I did not give up, I wont, just I am a loser. Even my BEST fucking friend calls me a loser.

hes not a real friend. kick his pathetic ass. real friends are people who are trying to help you

KUNIO · (#36 (**permalink**))

He is a good guy though, I mean he doesn't care but he kinda understands me I think.

CarleyGee · (#37 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Originally Posted by KUNIO

I try man, I really do, it is just hard... my brain is just not capable of doing so.

Well for one thing : You are way too negative!
That is what drives people away.
I know because that always makes me uncomfortable
whenever the people I am with have nothing positive
or interesting to say or are just hating on themselves.
I am not really sure of good advice that works for this,
but honestly you have to start (step-by-step) on
appreciating yourself and building confidence, and trust
me, if you have no hope in yourself that you will ever
be able to do this, it'll never happen. You NEED to take
it slowly and it WILL happen, it will just take some time.
But if you really really really want to help yourself, you
have to try and take those risks more than usual.

A small step could include smiling at someone you usually
wouldn't smile at.

Another thing : Normal? Ha. Trust me, there are tons of
people you would think are "normal" but really aren't.
People just don't open themselves up to who they really
are. But believe me, they're there.

KUNIO · (#38 (**permalink**))

Thank you for that. Slowly I will toughen myself, slowly but surely. I will try and succeed, I can feel it. All of the words in this thread and others is what I needed to hear, I thank all of you. My brain just... it is hard, but I can relate and am starting to understand.

SHAD0W · (#39 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by KUNIO

Slowly I will toughen myself, slowly but surely. I will try and succeed

If its any good to you, you kind of owned JF for all of half an hour, your two threads stayed at the top of the recent posts bit for ages... Still ongoing too. Or it was but ive started an argument elsewhere so maybe not

KUNIO · (#40 (**permalink**))

Oh SHAD0W, you are your arguments

Thanks again.