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12-07-2008, 04:30 AM
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Last time I did, people got pissed off. So I'll refrain from that...  Help my Cause for homeless teens!
http://www.socialvibe.com/CarleyGee R.I.P Johnny 3-31-09 http://www.formspring.me/CarleyRenee17 Ask me any question  
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12-07-2008, 04:42 AM
Youre only 16 haha im 20. dont worry you have plenty of time the most important thing is not to get into some sort of made up spiral of depression. there are people who want you. i felt the same way at 16 but as you get older youll change. theres always someone and youll be surprised than evantually youll start rejecting people you wouldve done anything to have before..... stuff changes youll be fine
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Alex-W...56163692?ref=s http://www.twitter.com/somedazing
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12-07-2008, 04:59 AM
You aren't supposed to have been in a serious relationship at 16. You are young. Have fun.
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12-07-2008, 05:11 AM
You're only sixteen, there's nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend right now, tomorrow, or three years from now. As a young adult there are more things to worry about, such as an education and personal growth. How is a person suppose to love you, if you don't act as if you love yourself?
Personally, I don't suggest having a serious relationship to any teenager, mine has caused (and still causes) tons of problems that end up getting one or the other in trouble. You know how much easier my life would be if I wasn't taking time out of my studies to talk through some new irrational problem he stumbled upon that day? There's a lot of work that goes into a relationship, and I have yet to meet a teenager who has been able to handle the situation. However, since you are asking how to talk to girls, I will say the best thing is to wear your confidence on you sleeve sort to say. Most girls don't date a guy who isn't willing to ask them out on a date. How are they suppose to know you like them, if you don't tell them? We aren't mind readers. I would also say to improve your attitude in general. There is no such thing as normal, there are people who cling more tightly to each other than some people, but they too are far from normal. It's very apparent in college, when you have a more diverse group of people around you, and less of those who grew up together and thus closely related. More importantly, you want a good girl? Go to college, you'll find someone smart and intelligent who'll share your interest in computers and anything else. Major in computer science, or anything else actually, you'll change in the next few years so who knows what you'll like even next year. Don't worry about the cost, that seemed to be an issue earlier. My mother works in fast food, and my father currently unemployed, but that hasn't stopped me from attending a private college. If you look hard enough, work hard enough, you'll have the government paying most of your tuition. Please, don't put yourself down because of the people around you now. Life will get better as long as you allow it. Focus on your high school work, improve the friendship you have now, and go to college and take a closer step into the real world. Even then, you'll still have some shelter to grow at your own pace, but still the freedom that changes people into respectable adults. At the end of the day, being a respectable, mature, adult will reward you with a great relationship as long as you're confident enough to show it. Sorry...I ramble, it seems. ^.^;;
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12-07-2008, 06:14 AM
alright, wanna know my theory? it's called the law of attraction. believe it or not, people attract everything that happens to them, happy things and bad things. for example, if you're driving to work and all you can think is "i'm gonna be late, i'm gonna be late" guess what? YOU'RE GONNA BE LATE! if you believe you're a loser, guess what? you're a loser. if you're convinced no one will like you, no one will like you. fortunately, the same goes for good things. believe with all you're heart that you're not worthless, and you wont be. know in your soul that it's gonna be a good day today, and today will be kickass. use your mind, think positive, and amazing things will happen. recently, i wanted to win a contest- you know, random drawings- so for a week invisioned myself winning, i believed that i already won, and i just focused on that hope positively. that friday, I WON THE $100 GIFTCARD! i blew it all on candy........anyway, my explanation might be a bit too confusing. just watch a DD called THE SECRET. it explains everything thoroughly.
and if it makes you feel any better, I'm a 16 year old girl and i never had a boyfriend. ever. and i like computers, but im not very good at using one. i'll be your friend, ok? 1 2 3 step step jump step step grope step step touch step step kiss and *SLap!!! (\__/) (='.'=) This is Bunny. Copy and paste bunny into your (")_(") signature to help him gain world domination
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12-07-2008, 06:25 AM
If I may rephrase what you said Hinata:
Suggestion is a very powerful thing. If you think one thing, you will see one thing. Example, Horoscopes. If your told that you will find luck today, then are you not looking for luck all day? And if you weren't told, would you have found it? I guess in essence, you will see what you want to see and you won't see what you don't. I hope this helps.
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12-07-2008, 06:34 AM
oh, well, i guess that WAS what i meant...... i'm not good a explaining things. either way, i'm right. so, nyah!
1 2 3 step step jump step step grope step step touch step step kiss and *SLap!!! (\__/) (='.'=) This is Bunny. Copy and paste bunny into your (")_(") signature to help him gain world domination
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12-07-2008, 06:35 AM
before i forget, i was idding about that last sentence. i'm not that mean....
1 2 3 step step jump step step grope step step touch step step kiss and *SLap!!! (\__/) (='.'=) This is Bunny. Copy and paste bunny into your (")_(") signature to help him gain world domination
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12-07-2008, 09:27 AM
Thank you for your message nigiyaka, really helps. Thank you everyone again, all of your messages really help me. I meant it when I said that, not lightly. And HinataUchiha, can I PM you so we can start getting to know each other?
 And for anyone who cares, I guess I'll post pictures of me... http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/k...4107805726.jpg http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/k...0bc5684967.jpg http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/k...716a572534.jpg  --------------------------------------------------------- _.-~{Learn how to read/write Hiragana!}~-._ _.-~{Learn how to read/write Japanese characters on your Windows XP PC!}~-._
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12-07-2008, 12:12 PM
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Help my Cause for homeless teens!
http://www.socialvibe.com/CarleyGee R.I.P Johnny 3-31-09 http://www.formspring.me/CarleyRenee17 Ask me any question
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