In love with a young girl

MarioTokyo · (#1 (**permalink**))

Hello there

I have got a problem. I am 24 and I live in Tokyo. My girlfriend is 16. We both want to have sex (up to a certain extent) together but I don't know what is legal and what is not in Tokyo. I know there are laws against things like enjo kosai. But this isn't anything like that. We are really in love. I don't give her money, although sometimes I treat her like any gentleman with his girlfriend.

I know the laws vary with the prefecture. There are a lot of contradictory rumors. Anyone knows about the real legal facts in Tokyo?

Thanks for you help

Mario

Ronin4hire · (#2 (**permalink**))

I don't have any advice.... I'm just curious as to what you could possible have in common with a 16 year old.

MarioTokyo · (#3 (**permalink**))

We have a lot in common: food, music, movies... And she is quite mature for a 16 year old.

TheUnknown · (#4 (**permalink**))

Unfortunately According To The Japanese Law, You Can Not Have Any Sexual Activity With Anyone Under The Age of 18.

Quote:

Japan — Age of Consent
Although the age of sexual consent in Japan is 13 years of age, prefecture law usually overrides federal law, raising the age up to 18.

Japan Legal FAQ - Is the age of consent in Japan really 13?

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Keaton421 · (#5 (**permalink**))

How do you even meet a 16 year old and start dating her?

xYinniex · (#6 (**permalink**))

psh. as long as you don't broadcast to the people in the area that you have sex. >.>

My friend dated a 27 year old before, and she was 17 at the time.

MarioTokyo · (#7 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by TheUnknown

Unfortunately According To The Japanese Law, You Can Not Have Any Sexual Activity With Anyone Under The Age of 18.

I think this is a mistake. Can anyine read the following Japanese entry on Wikipedia?

性的同意年齢 - Wikipedia

MarioTokyo · (#8 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Keaton421

How do you even meet a 16 year old and start dating her?

I met her at Starbucks. She was studying English and I just said Hello. And then... you know.

Blac · (#9 (**permalink**))

if you guys are so in love why rush things?

Zimek · (#10 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Blac

if you guys are so in love why rush things?

I agree.

@Mario
It's okay if she loves you, but if I would be in your shoes I would wait 2 or 3 years.