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12-25-2008, 12:21 AM
I'm so heart broken right now. I have know my best friend for a total of 3
years and 24 days as of today. We always ended up liking the same thing as like guys but i always give up cuz for me i can give up anything for the friend ship so then i told her that i have a crush on this dude and she said she wanna help me but i was like no but then so said " i am on my period dont piss me off just give me his freakin number" so i gave it to her. Then the third day wat i know is that she was flirting with him. i wasan't mad. yeah and she told me she likes him so i was like ok yeah i dont like him anymore. So then she start talkin to him till midnight and today her mom called and started yellin at me because i keep on giving her guys phone # and she's like boy crazy so i told my friend wat happen and i told her not to tell her mom bout this but she did and wat was worse is that she told this guy who she just know for like 2 days all my secrets and other things. I also have problems with my family now because of her. and i always take the blame for her but then my other best friend tell me iz time to stop being friends with her and he is like always right but i couldn't let go of this 3 Years and 24 days friendship. so i would do as according to the most vote. so should i act like nothing happened like always or should i not be her friend anymore? ( some how whenever i hear her voice i cant help but just not to be mad but all my other friends always thinks that she is putting me down and stuff but i really dont mind so this is so hard) i felt really betrayed that she went to far saying alot she shouldn't say. 
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12-25-2008, 02:50 AM
I'm sorry to say this but she is not acting like a real friend. You deserve better. Believe me I have been through friendships that were not real. I had a friend once and every guy that I liked she flirted with them. If she was not happy noone else was allowed to be. You are hurting right now but you would be better off finding a real friend. I suggest you don't put yourself through any more heartbreak.
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12-28-2008, 08:08 AM
Wow that stuff doesn't sound like stuff a best friend would do, I'm sorry but I've had enemies treat me better then how you've described your friend’s actions. I'd move on from this friendship if I was you because if you've known each other that long and she doesn't respect you enough not to treat you as such it's not going to change.
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12-28-2008, 11:23 PM
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and she told me the reason is because she is bi.... and i guess u guys can guess y  so i dont think i can blame her can i?
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12-28-2008, 11:35 PM
Well i wouldn't go spreading her secrets and stuff as well, that'd just bring you down to her level.
No one can make the decision for you, at the end you just have to do what you feel but if i were to offer my advise it would be to leave her and find a new friend. If she nags you and asks you why then just tell her and say that she blew her chance and really took advantage of your loyalty so you're moving on. If she does bug you then you could be really cheeky and say "i am on my period dont piss me off!" just for fun Good luck with it  I hope it works out okay x
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