Who's more dominant in your relationship?

[RealJames]

Originally Posted by tangomike

i'm in college now and the Japanese chicks I meet here are 'girls' whereas the other chicks are 'women' to me. sorry to say but thats how i see it

Some of those "girls" are probably wondering why the childish thing isn't working so well as it did back home.

I don't think there's any need to apologize for that. I'm pretty sure that it's the image they are trying to portray.
The childish look is what many aim for.
I've met brilliant women here, deep, complex, who behave like children and act far more stupid than they really are. Maybe it's what the men like.

After all, a lot of porn here features adult women fully behaving like 6 year olds.

[Guza]

Originally Posted by RealJames

I'm definitely the dominant one, in all aspects.
Like hell if I'd let anyone more foolish or stupid than I make any decisions for me!

If she were wiser or smarter then I'd relax and let her do it all, as it is I'd get frustrated with it.

lol ima bit late on this one, im not necessarly dominant, mainly cause i just got a new job< and when i was unemployed she pretty much paid for like everything lol, but itll prolly start to change when i start gettin money rollin in haha

but on the other hand im dominent in certian areas, such as the bed....annnnd anything where we gotta go anywhere (<---has the driver liscense and car xD)

[dogsbody70]

dominant in bed? shouldn't it be a partnership both trying to please the other.

[dogsbody70]

Originally Posted by dogsbody70

dominant in bed? shouldn't it be a partnership both trying to please the other.

also surely where you go should be mutual also.

do you ever discuss anything or do you just take advantage whilst she is earning.

sounds selfish to me.

[JojoBizarre]

In my couple I would say it's a bit of both,. we have our strong dominance on certain subject and vice-versa.

Must be why we are such a great team and have been going strong for almost 6 years now.

[tokusatsufan]

Originally Posted by tangomike

(embarassingly she can drink almost as much as I can, sometimes more.....but shes of German descent and Im of Japanese descent so that could be genetics .....thats my excuse lol.

There's nothing wrong with that. Means you'll have the better liver! I'll probably just be teetotal in Japan because I only drink alcopops. Well I can drink Carling[and champagne ] but it's not the kind of thing I'd get excited about.

I agree about older women. At the same time though,I don't really want her to be too old! I will draw the line somewhere. Hopefully they won't be expecting kids. As much as I like the idea of a mixed race child and carrying on the family,they have to be babies first and that's annoying.

[tangomike]

Originally Posted by RealJames

Some of those "girls" are probably wondering why the childish thing isn't working so well as it did back home.

I don't think there's any need to apologize for that. I'm pretty sure that it's the image they are trying to portray.
The childish look is what many aim for.
I've met brilliant women here, deep, complex, who behave like children and act far more stupid than they really are. Maybe it's what the men like.

After all, a lot of porn here features adult women fully behaving like 6 year olds.

I have a friend who kept getting used in 1 night stands after parties but never got a boyfriend. she asked me why that kept happening and I said, cus in America we don;t want to take care of our girlfriends as if they were are children, we want strong outgoing and independent women to be our other half.

Ive never met these deep, complex women who act like children but I have met some older women who were just professional as hell. they know what they want and they can be pretty ruthless against one another...and men from what I saw. Japanese society is pretty vicious when they actually drop the pleasantries and customs in Love....and War.

Porn from Japan is bad.The 3rd Reich of porn The end.

[tokusatsufan]

But we can show American porn to 5 year olds!

The thing is,in Japan,there's so many genres and subgenres. I'm into the modelling thing. There is actual porn,and some of that does demonstrate some really bad values in some people,but there doesn't seem to be a lot of it. I know Chiba is where it comes from.

[StonerPenguin]

Originally Posted by tokusatsufan

But we can show American porn to 5 year olds!

WhatwhatWHAT? What do mean by that?

[OHayou]

Unfortunately, here in America men are becoming more beta like while women are becoming more dominant.

In fact, young American women are outpacing their male counterparts in terms of college degrees and in careers.

I think the guys are too busy "dominating" in Call of Duty (or whatever is the current dominant shooter), eating potato chips, and becoming socially awkward sissy men. lol

Also, there was a comparison of the features of the 50 "most beautiful women" and the overall commonality were masculine features. :thumbs down: