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05-08-2009, 07:00 AM

What's wrong tonight. Is it a full moon?

1) If you read closely, he has already broken up with his girlfriend, so relationship advice is not needed.

2) There is no need to insult the OP.
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1) If you read closely, he has already broken up with his girlfriend, so relationship advice is not needed.
2) There is no need to insult the OP.
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Relationships are more than love. Love will not last long if your financial situation is not stable.
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You do realize that the top 3 causes of marriage failure are MONEY, sex and communication right?

I know that you're just a teenager living at home but once you move out and face the realities of financial responsibility, I'm sure that you'll realize how money can stress out a relationship.
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05-08-2009, 04:08 PM

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You do realize that the top 3 causes of marriage failure are MONEY, sex and communication right?

I know that you're just a teenager living at home but once you move out and face the realities of financial responsibility, I'm sure that you'll realize how money can stress out a relationship.
Then it's not REAL love. If this does happen, then there was no love involved in the relationship to begin with.

And I know you're a you know what who thinks he knows every little thing about every little thing, and who feels the need to bring people current living status and or age involved whenever he directs a comment towards someone, as if therefore rendering the individual uneducated, or just down right wrong

What you say might be true, marriages fail all the time due to financial problems, I'm not arguing with that. But if two people REALLY love each other, then nothing is an issue to either of them. Not sex, money, personal beliefs, etc. Hopefully you'll find one day and you'll realize what I'm saying. Or since I'm living with my parents I guess that means I have no clue what I'm saying and I'm a complete idiot. Man, lemme see if I can find this "submit reply" button, but since I'm so stupid it'll be hard for me.......hmm....


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05-08-2009, 05:36 PM

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You do realize that the top 3 causes of marriage failure are MONEY, sex and communication right?

I know that you're just a teenager living at home but once you move out and face the realities of financial responsibility, I'm sure that you'll realize how money can stress out a relationship.
the top cause of marriage failure is stupid people

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Then it's not REAL love. If this does happen, then there was no love involved in the relationship to begin with.

And I know you're a you know what who thinks he knows every little thing about every little thing, and who feels the need to bring people current living status and or age involved whenever he directs a comment towards someone, as if therefore rendering the individual uneducated, or just down right wrong

What you say might be true, marriages fail all the time due to financial problems, I'm not arguing with that. But if two people REALLY love each other, then nothing is an issue to either of them. Not sex, money, personal beliefs, etc. Hopefully you'll find one day and you'll realize what I'm saying. Or since I'm living with my parents I guess that means I have no clue what I'm saying and I'm a complete idiot. Man, lemme see if I can find this "submit reply" button, but since I'm so stupid it'll be hard for me.......hmm....
OMG. I 100% agree with that!!!!!



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05-08-2009, 05:37 PM

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And I know you're a you know what who thinks he knows every little thing about every little thing, and who feels the need to bring people current living status and or age involved whenever he directs a comment towards someone, as if therefore rendering the individual uneducated, or just down right wrong
No, I definitely don't know it all. I'm on this forum to soak up as much information as possible before making my decision to move to Japan.

I just found it necessary to jump in when I noticed an ill-informed user like yourself calling another user an idiot - something I'd never lower myself to do.

How many times have you been in love? I was in love with my first girlfriend back when you were a microorganism in your fathers nutsack. Does that make me an expert? Of course not, but I've experienced what it feels like to be in love (several times over), I've experienced how it can cloud your judgment and I've experienced how it can destroy you when it fails.

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What you say might be true, marriages fail all the time due to financial problems, I'm not arguing with that. But if two people REALLY love each other, then nothing is an issue to either of them. Not sex, money, personal beliefs, etc.
I'm pretty sure that every newly married couple would've told you that they REALLY loved each other before they eventually ended up as a statistic in the ever growing divorce rate. (Which is a staggering 40% to 50%.)

Love is definitely a strong bond but poor finances can easily erode even the strongest of relationships. Maybe you'll come to realize that someday.
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05-08-2009, 05:47 PM

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I'm pretty sure that every newly married couple would've told you that they REALLY loved each other before they eventually ended up as a statistic in the ever growing divorce rate. (Which is a staggering 40% to 50%.)

Love is definitely a strong bond but poor finances can easily erode even the strongest of relationships. Maybe you'll come to realize that someday.
from my eyes, even in marriages that succeed, those people dont really love each other. seems to me 99.9% of people have no idea what love is. marriages fail because people fail.



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05-08-2009, 06:11 PM

Wow.

Spicytuna..... You are so beyond knowing anything about love, it's not even funny. To even state the words statistics and love in the same sentence just tells me pretty straight forward you are, indeed, completely lost in all of this. Love isn't about stastics, I'm sorry your spring fling relationships did work out, really I am, maybe if you were rich she would have thrown herself all over you.

Marriages fail everyday because of financial problems. I'm not against this statement in anyway. But marriages revolved around LOVE, with LOVE as the center center point, do NOT fail because of money. If a marriage fails because of money, then it was a loveless marriage, simple as that.

If she loves you, and you love her, then money is no issue at all, you'll find a way to be together. No, I'm not lost in some fairy tale true love Romeo and Juliet daydream. If you're both broke, then of course it will be difficult to be together, but if love is involved, then you will find a way to make it work, money or no money.

I do understand what you're saying, but it is wrong. I think someone must have really done some damage to you before, lol. One day you'll stop moping around and embarrassing yourself by saying "finance can destroy love."


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05-08-2009, 06:25 PM

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Marriages fail everyday because of financial problems. I'm not against this statement in anyway. But marriages revolved around LOVE, with LOVE as the center center point, do NOT fail because of money. If a marriage fails because of money, then it was a loveless marriage, simple as that.
Do you think such LOVE can never fail? If it isn't money, what can fail it?



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Do you think such LOVE can never fail? If it isn't money, what can fail it?
why do you think it must fail?



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