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03-08-2010, 11:42 PM

Yeah at times, defaintly when i know the chance of the person feeling the same is like 1%
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03-09-2010, 01:31 PM

It was as an adolescent, but that was quite some time ago. Now I don't bother with the "I like you" dance. I just say, "Hey, how about dinner?" or "You know, that new Hugh Grant movie is playing, wanna catch it?" As a teen, I was in a hurry to find my one true love, because media told me I should.

As an adult? Eh. No hurry. Not even any real desire. Dating for dating's sake is cool. Haven't had a relationship since college, don't really care to pursue one at this point in my life. Time enough for that later, if it happens. I have other priorities.

Not that a Kyosuke/Madoka situation isn't awesome. It's just incredibly rare.


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03-15-2010, 08:04 PM

It comes naturally. Get to know a girl, befriend her and definitely the best time to tell her is at night. I used to stop girls when they were alone, taking a walk at night, and it always worked.

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03-15-2010, 09:00 PM

For me... almost impossible.


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03-16-2010, 08:46 PM

More than one person close to me has pointed out that I do not need to "confess" my feelings because the are so obvious. They say that once I drop the barriers that remain in place in public, you can read what my feeling are about anything just by looking me in the face.

That may be slightly exaggerated, but true enough. When I am comfortable with a person, nothing is hidden from them unless it is for their own benefit not to know.

Its sad that there are as many people uncomfortable knowing and accepting another's feeling as there are those uncomfortable disclosing them.


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03-16-2010, 08:51 PM

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Yeah at times, defaintly when i know the chance of the person feeling the same is like 1%
that happens to everyone
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03-19-2010, 09:52 AM

Hahaha, I remember my first days of confessing!

Well, I bailed it. I really lack the guts that time, since I'm very shy when it comes to the opposite sex.

I guess that having a mutual understanding with each other is a must before confessing, because the feelings towards each other will develop naturally once the flow of friendship is at hand, well that's just my opinion based on my experience.

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05-05-2010, 04:36 AM

T-Shirt slogan time.

"The more I learn about women, the more I love my car."

Honestly, I saw it on a T-shirt, I thought it was funny.


Best bet is to be yourself, afterall, that's what will attract people in the first place. Not only that, you don't have to pretend to be anything your not, wich is probably better in the long run. You can't build strong relationships on false pretenses.
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06-02-2010, 02:01 PM

It is hard for me at times unless I'm become very comfortable with that person (I'm a quite the shy person). On the other hand, I'm glad I haven't confessed those feelings after seeing those girls for what they truly were.

There are times before I confess that the thought that this girl can do better than me does enter my thoughts, and that's another thing that holds me back. Most women like tall guys and I'm only 5'6, but that actually has never bothered me.


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06-02-2010, 02:11 PM

Depends what I'm confessing.

Generally speaking... no because I don't do things that are that horrible.



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