Would you like to have a japanese boyfriend? Why?

[buyqubeqube]

@ayumiyuu

szeretlek ayumi

[willgoestocollege]

I'm still learning Japanese and I wouldn't date someone if we are not fluent in each others language as it would be difficult to talk to each other

[kunitokotachi]

Originally Posted by ayumiyuu

difference is the point..

Who were raised up in Japan that were raised up in japanese mentality and expectations.
..and these expectations DO need japanese girl who was raised up for them..

but, that's only my opinion....tell me if i wasn't right.

Yes, I agree with you. Generally speaking I would say yes. I will tell you a few issues Japanese guys have with western girls.

1. Showing public affection.
2. Expectations. ex: Do I really have to compliment them as much? What, buy flowers? It's sweet if I open the door for them?
3. In the western world a woman can be consider to have a normal or good body but could be considered a little fat in the Japanese world.
4. If you are not lady-like it's huge turn-off. However, for most people I think, a vulgar or wild girl is a turn-off for anyone.

[ayumiyuu]

Originally Posted by kunitokotachi

Yes, I agree with you. Generally speaking I would say yes. I will tell you a few issues Japanese guys have with western girls.

1. Showing public affection.
2. Expectations. ex: Do I really have to compliment them as much? What, buy flowers? It's sweet if I open the door for them?
3. In the western world a woman can be consider to have a normal or good body but could be considered a little fat in the Japanese world.
4. If you are not lady-like it's huge turn-off. However, for most people I think, a vulgar or wild girl is a turn-off for anyone.

I know about those things...thanks ^^

1. >>Wat do ya mean by the public affection point??

2.>>i think girls love to get compliments in every culture....but western girls aren't all the same ..as well....
As for me....love compliments till its credible..hate to get flowers ^^''''....and till i have both of my hands, the guy don't need to play a door-openerXD i can open that fuckin' door for myself XDDDD

3. >> ....bodyshapes in my nation is very variable. I feel like fat all the time, not just for the japanese ideal, but for my ideal!!.. i'm a maximalist and really critic.

4.>> i'm a really wild and a heavily vulgar girl....XDDDD boyz never ever liked those type of girls who always speak out what's on her tongue....XDDDD



....soooo.... i'm terrible....dahhahahaXDDDD

[ayumiyuu]

Originally Posted by buyqubeqube

@ayumiyuu

szeretlek ayumi

Köszönöm^^


hehehehe

[kunitokotachi]

Originally Posted by ayumiyuu

....soooo.... i'm terrible....dahhahahaXDDDD

Hahaha.... ???

[ayumiyuu]

Originally Posted by kunitokotachi

Hahaha.... ???

What's the problem??

[kunitokotachi]

Originally Posted by ayumiyuu

What's the problem??

It just made me laugh that's all.

[ayumiyuu]

Originally Posted by kunitokotachi

It just made me laugh that's all.

May I ask ya why?? O.O

[kunitokotachi]

Originally Posted by ayumiyuu

May I ask ya why?? O.O

Because I was reading your responses from 1 -3 then I get to response 4 and just wasn't expecting that response and then imagined you laughing like a maniac.