Need some advice

[aoshisakura]

i'm A pErsOn whO LOvEs trEAting friEndz As mY fAmiLY,,
in fAct i Used tO cAll thEm in sUch wAys LikE,, twin,,
kUiA (fiLipinO wOrd fOr OLdEr brOthEr),,AtE (fiLipinO wOrd fOr sister),, EvEn
dAddy!! it mAdE mE sAd whEn OnE Of mY kUiA in schOol sAid thAt hE's
faLLing fOr mE,, i mAnAgEd tO tELL him thAt wE'rE bEttEr Off As friEndz,,
thAt OnE's sEttLed bUt hE tOLd mE hE'd stiLL wAit fOr thE right timE,, AftEr
grAduAtion,, 2 mOrE of mY cLAssmAtEs tOLd mE thE sAmE thing,, bUt i stiLL
dOn't wAnt tO hAvE thAt kind Of cOmmitmEnt sO i tUrnEd thEm dOwn As
wELL,, thEn,, nOw,, thE pErsOn thAt i trEAtEd As mY dAd (bUt At thE sAmE
AgE As mE) AskEd if i wOUld givE him thE pErmissiOn tO cOUrt mE.. im not
qUitE sUrE bUt i think i LovE him toO,, but im AfrAid Of commitmEnts,, whAt
shOULd i dO??

[JackIsLost]

first advice is to take of the silly CaPs AftEr eVerY cOuplE Of woRDs.
as for everything else, another member would be more of a help than i would be but if you love him, you might want to explore that a little as in start a relationship.

[aoshisakura]

bUt i think im nOt gOod At hAndLing stUffs likE thAt..

[aoshisakura]

sorry i forgot to take off the capz!

[JackIsLost]

you seem like a young person. if you like him you should start like any normal young person that starts relationships. my idea would be to invite him over to the house and study, watch movies at home together. if he shows up regularly when invited he most likely is feels the same way you do. the key is to hang out with him only so it is clear that it is "like a date" but it really isn't said early in the "relationship" so there's little chance of getting embarrassed for you. good luck though

edit: save your hands from hitting the caps and developing arthritis you'll thank me when i'm dead and you're 85 years old plus it looks better and easier to read

[aoshisakura]

but we've already graduated from college.. and everytime he'll ask
me out just to have fun together,, i never said yes unless we're
with our other friends,, am i bad?

[JackIsLost]

Originally Posted by aoshisakura

but we've already graduated from college.. and everytime he'll ask
me out just to have fun together,, i never said yes unless we're
with our other friends,, am i bad?

wow i really thought you were 14-16 or somewhere along those lines. if i were him (i am not so this probably wont matter) i would think that you are not into me at all. the fact that you don't hang out with him unless friends are present gives off a "you are just like one of my FRIENDS" vibe.

[JayT]

Originally Posted by JackIsLost

wow i really thought you were 14-16 or somewhere along those lines. if i were him (i am not so this probably wont matter) i would think that you are not into me at all. the fact that you don't hang out with him unless friends are present gives off a "you are just like one of my FRIENDS" vibe.

Hey not all teenagers type that way.
Some of use use proper grammar you know.
Typing in that manner really irritates me.

-___-;

[aoshisakura]

that's how my classmates look at me as well,, the baby among the class..
that's why of all the people,, i don't know why they've chosen me..
of course i want someone to take care of me,, someone
who would always be there to watch over me,, but don't you think i'm
just longing for parental attention?? my parents used to be so busy,, maybe that's why i grew up like this,,
i grew up loving only my anime collections and my
siblings,, now i'm not sure if this love
for him is just nothing or what.. one
thing's for sure.. i don't want to lose him..

[aoshisakura]

Originally Posted by JayT

Hey not all teenagers type that way.
Some of use use proper grammar you know.
Typing in that manner really irritates me.

-___-;

sorry im used of hitting the capz.. but i'll try not to anymore..