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02-14-2010, 01:11 AM
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02-14-2010, 01:20 AM
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"Japanese women are great!"... "Japanese men suck!" ... Also sounds the same to me, minus a few doses of obnoxiousness. Your girlfriend/wife is clearly great. No one is going to debate that - regardless of whether it has anything to do with nationality/race. If that weren`t the case you most likely wouldn`t be with them. But I don`t think you`re realizing that you are tossing insults in the direction of me - as my husband is Japanese, so clearly must suck to date and must have no concept of "ladies first" and must be incapable of treating me well, etc etc etc ad infinitum. Or maybe I just don`t deserve to be treated well as I`m not Japanese, so it`s okay? |
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02-14-2010, 01:57 AM
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Is what I said. Was it not? Don't put words in my mouth. 猿も木から落ちる
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02-14-2010, 02:07 AM
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Unfortunately for you, she is not here. "Ride for ruin, and the world ended!" |
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02-14-2010, 02:11 AM
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My reasoning for liking Japanese women isn't about race, it's more cultural with how they are raised. If I felt American women acted the same, I wouldn't have been attracted to Japanese women is my guess. I'm sure your husband treats you well and you are smart enough to know how you like being treated, so why do we have to explain ourselves? Besides, why should we take advice from someone who downgrades Japanese women by saying "only losers who can't get a date at home only date Japanese women" and refers to them as "little Geishas"? Clearly this person is more of a racist then someone who says they prefer to date or marry a certain type. |
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02-14-2010, 03:19 AM
I wasn`t trying to put words in anyone`s mouth - just pointing out how it can be interpreted.
I also think it`s fairly obvious that you`d only hear that Japanese men don`t treat their girlfriends well, etc - I doubt you`ve dated any yourself! (If you have, well, hmm... Okay.) The same with a lot of men who are interested in Japanese women due to the cultural differences - Japanese women who are interested in foreign men because they are foreign also often have bad experiences in love behind them. Belyvis` wife was not treated well in prior relationships. Does this mean that Japanese men are terrible? No - it means that those men she was with were. If someone came along touting the joys of some other race/culture, and said several times how their friends all told them Japanese women were awful, etc etc etc - (especially if there was already a long standing stereotype of Japanese women being crappy in bed, treating their men like dirt, etc like there is with Japanese men...) I think you might like to point out that it may not be true. If you didn`t think so and didn`t believe your friends, you wouldn`t write it. I`ve never heard a guy say "I`ve dated a number of Japanese men, and they were all terrible." - it`s obviously going to be secondhand info from friends or girlfriends. Unless there is something you two aren`t telling us here... Really though, I wasn`t jumping to be offended, I was pointing out that in the end it amounts to the same thing. The result is that more stereotyping of Japanese men as crap partners is spread, and the more crap I end up having to hear about it when I come across anyone obnoxious. Quote:
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02-14-2010, 03:25 AM
Haha!
Im in my girlfriend's room at the moment and she saw some of the comments I just replied to so I showed her the thread. Without naming names... she thinks you guys are a bunch of racist losers. (Hey mods... before you act... If the defence "she said it not me" is acceptable then technically I havent done anything wrong) |
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