Japanese guy likes me or not?

[pandayanyan]

Well someone is going to have to breach the line that says I LIKE YOU. Otherwise it will always be a possibility that its just a good friends thing. Either test further and further till you are more sure or take a chance and just ask. Either way I think you will do fine. It all up to your own timing.

[Tyrien]

ask him. if this has already been said than it needs to be said again.

if you're worried about ruining a friendship then it wasn't that great of a friendship to begin with.

[spicytuna]

Originally Posted by honey21

We guys flirt sometimes,and he is a real cool person,we never cross the line of decent flirting though...I think I have given some hints to him that he is an important person to me...I really like him but I don't want to confess before I know what he feels about me...so that's why I wanted some hints on how to know if he likes me?

Are you male?

Either way, I don't think there's any harm in telling him that you LIKE him. Unless of course you happen to be under 16 in which case we can forgive you.

[honey21]

I am a girl lol...and no I am not under 16 Will TRY to say what I feel next time we talk but....it's still necessary for me to know his feelings (at least a bit)before I say anything to him...

[Yoshinori]

Just ask him! Or tell him about your feelings!

[RobinMask]

Originally Posted by honey21

I am a girl lol...and no I am not under 16 Will TRY to say what I feel next time we talk but....it's still necessary for me to know his feelings (at least a bit)before I say anything to him...

It's impossible to know what anyone thinks/feels unless they tell you, and he won't likely tell you unless you ask. Everyone else's advice is pretty sound: tell the guy. If he doesn't feel the same and you're good friends then you'll still be good friends, and if he does feel the same you'll be able to start a relationship. Like someone else said though be very careful, this is all via online after all and if you one day meet it'll be in a foriegn country - make sure you stay safe.

[Yoshinori]

Originally Posted by honey21

I am really sorry if I hurt anyone by saying jp guys...I didn't mean that in a wrong way...I just meant Japanese boys can be really shy sometimes...so to specify that I am talking only about them,I used the term...I know about culture and language but never really lived in Japan so I have no personal experience on interacting with them face to face...and I needed to talk about this...so I would really appreciate other people's comments too! We guys flirt sometimes,and he is a real cool person,we never cross the line of decent flirting though...I think I have given some hints to him that he is an important person to me...I really like him but I don't want to confess before I know what he feels about me...so that's why I wanted some hints on how to know if he likes me?

I am (half) Japanese, and I don't feel offended.

I remember once, being in love with an Albanian girl, and asking a similiar question on another site about Albanian girls... what they like, how to possibly win their hearts, etc. I didn't mean to be offensive, either. Just was desperately in love!

[pandayanyan]

I agree and good luck! Let us know how it goes!

[honey21]

It's not much of an update but just wanted to share...
He apologized for being too busy nowadays in an offline message..and whenever he comes online he talks about only one thing....he just asks me if I am already in Japan? when I am going there? and to contact him when I get there...I dunno but he talks only about that....so, in short, I did not get any chance to say anything about my feelings...lol

[Yoshinori]

Do you actually talk, or do you just exchange messages?

I would just say it outright. If he wants you to come to Japan, he feels SOMETHING toward you, at least.