Do you go for looks or personality?

[Silver1]

2 a degree at 1st glance u wud either be attracted to someone or not, here is where personality plays a bigger role, cos its no use you looking extremely gorgeous but cant hold a conversation or ur head cant fit in the door way lol. I think ppl today remember u not so much by the way u look, but rather ur personality.

[Gackt21]

Age stomps beauty dead...Personality means more to people. Women look for a man that will give them security. That is a big thing I see as the first things women are looking for. We want to feel safe in our environment.

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by Jusa

Both, because 1, personality and looks (the way a person looks like, not so called: good looks) are intertwined, hence both personality and looks are individual and differ as well as evolve. 2, personality is an expression of everything put together (mind, soul, body and heart) and brought forth visible (sound/visual).

That's a good point. When I notice someone for their looks, it's not necessarily on a scale of attractiveness. It's their general appearance - the image they are trying to project and how it seems to fit them.

Sometimes you will discover once you meet them that the image was a complete misdirection, but not often.

And when someone approaches me, I can often tell just how observant they were by the first impression they seem to have of me.

[ryuhebi13]

Originally Posted by Gackt21

Age stomps beauty dead...Personality means more to people. Women look for a man that will give them security. That is a big thing I see as the first things women are looking for. We want to feel safe in our environment.

That's true isn't it? Personality endures and sees couples through. I agree there has to be a certain attraction to begin with but if there's no personality and only looks...

I've heard this many times before and I agree. Women want safety and security and a guy who give that. There may be some exceptions and I can't speak on behalf of women (not being one) but it does seem that way to me.

[bendansia]

I guess we forget another important factor? money? hahahaha.. look, personality or rich?

Some ppl choose to go with the rich even if he/she is ugly, the personality is ugly... but he/she is definitely rich.

But if compared with personality or look. I definitely judge by the personality. A handsome guy can make me go awe, but not all handsome can turn me on. Anyway, a good looking person with a poor personality or has an evil heart is definitely not a beautiful person. =)

[eezy1]

i want looks AND personality =p maybe im just picky

[kouichisan]

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[tokusatsufan]

Originally Posted by eezy1

i want looks AND personality =p maybe im just picky

Same. It doesn't make sense why you should have to choose. It's like saying you can be thrown up on then have a cake,or you can go to a party and it's a bad party,it's just a random,bizarre choice.

[robcardiv]

Lets put it this way.
I could not date even britney spears (Hot and rich) If she acted like one of those girls from that jersey shore show or a thuggish rapper.

But I have a standard also. I'm a little picky when it comes to looks. X_x,
I cant help it.

[visualkeito]

looks always take a backseat to personality for me.
a person can always look good but a horrible personality can make them ugly.
at least thats how i see it.