Do you go for looks or personality? - Page 6

WingsToDiscovery · (#51 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by evanny

i dont get it...why people allways say - so... you date her/him because of the looks or how funny, interesting she/he is?
why dont just date someone who has both? a good looking girl/guy whos also a great person. seems to me like everyone who makes these topics thinks it is impossible to combine...and those people who chose looks are somewhat inferior to those who date person because of their "heart".
thats the part i think is total bullsh**.
i find that actually the beautiful grils i meet and know are also the ones who have the best personality and not the other way around.

That's basically what I've been saying. It's kind of like reverse discrimination. Everyone here is writing off attractive people like they are 100 percent pompous assholes. I don't know how everyone's self esteem issues are here, and I'm not judging, but it sounds like a lot of people here can't score "10"s so they immediately write them off but use the excuse that they're not on the same level of depth or intellect, which is just as stereotypical.

I personally get along with more attractive women as well, both romantically and platonically. I find them to be more outgoing, radiant, and I don't have to deal with their insecurities as much, and best of all, neither do they.

mira · (#52 (**permalink**))

Looks are what gets my attention but personality is what keeps in there.

dogsbody70 · (#53 (**permalink**))

beauty is also in the eye of the beholder.

BakaTensei · (#54 (**permalink**))

it all goes hand in hand like, someone could be the smartest, funniest, most down to earth girl anyone could hope for but if your not attracted to her then its hardly going to work =\ they need to have a good personality so that when you grow old together and the looks fade at least you have someone you get along with haha

lenn01 · (#55 (**permalink**))

I go for personality. Looks aren't that important. To me it's about how they are not how they look like.

AnthonyHisashi · (#56 (**permalink**))

Looks are important to keep a physical attraction.
it's only human nature to be attracted by someone's appeal...

However, i myself have had an experience with someone of the opposite gender that isn't whatsoever attractive, They get clingy.. Ridiculously controlling, and adore you to the point of obsession...

Scary stuffs..

neku6217 · (#57 (**permalink**))

any girls wanna help me please?

Yojimbo · (#58 (**permalink**))

Depends on what i wanna do with my partner :P

Larbob · (#59 (**permalink**))

Hello,

buddy i go for personality 'cuz beauty fades..and thanks for asking this question here which seems interesting to me..

thanks!!

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elizabethlpulley · (#60 (**permalink**))

I go for looks at first...if you look can't look at someone then there is no point in dating them....Once I get to know most of them I do end up liking them in the personality perspective....