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12-13-2010, 03:03 AM
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most of the time men dont know my personality - coz i dont always talk infront of guys (that they would get put off by that alone) - so was just wondering why, coz alot of men say im quite intimidating but alot of them also say u shud get married to a rich man u could get one easily, but how am i supposed to get one if i scare the crap out of them before ive even opened my mouth??! ive had men literally start quiviering slightly when talking to me (you can hear the nervousnes in their voice) so i was just wondering why the hell!! (btw i dont want everyone to think im an arrogant B but im just sharing my experiences here) btw i know this is really random but does anyone know if takeshi kaneshiro is married? he is hotness and a half! ive heard he was married to some japanese women and their trying for a baby but it just a rumour so far...thanks How can the world end at 2012 when my yogurt expires in 2013? |
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12-13-2010, 04:06 AM
I think you're right that it's a common issue.
Perhaps it's because a lot of good looking guys, as with good looking girls, often have insecurity issues, and aren't aware of where they stand or what they could really get. Even if a girl knows she's hot the guy she might like probably doesn't feel he deserves her. Despite the growing strength of women in the world, most still don't feel comfortable asking a guy out, so the confident guy will have a better chance than the confident woman at getting what he wants. Ideas? |
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12-13-2010, 05:45 AM
No dude, I like boys who grossly underestimate their looks, I mean like they're gorgeous but they think they're hideous and stupid-- zero self-confidence so they will never leave me durhuuuurrr
But seriously, I can't stand super confident men. I don't care how good looking he is, if I discover he's an arrogant douche I LITERALLY stop being sexually attracted to him D: Whereas, a guy who I orginally found ugly can become better looking if I find his personality to be modest and sweet Though, sexy-confident CAN be pulled off, but Alex Kapranos is the only person capable of such a feat |
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12-13-2010, 05:56 AM
Arrogance and self-confidence are two different things.
Men who are gorgeous can have two left feet, and still get girls. That's not what I am talking about. I am talking about men who are not traditionally handsome, but have an air of confidence. Don't tell me you have never seen a rather plain or pudgy dude with a drop-dead beautiful gal. You don't see the opposite as often. |
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12-13-2010, 06:16 AM
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I guess I notice cute guys wtih ugly girls more because I'm a girl (so I'm not looking for hot chicks then notice their butt-ugly boyfriends) and vice-versa for you. I've noticed this phenomenon before when my dad commented on all the 'hot chicks with bubba boyfriends' then I told "No man, it's the other way around." Thus, we like to point them out when at Wal-Mart and stuff Buuuut I'm from Alabama, and the chicks here are hideous so I suppose I ain't saying much... |
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