Ask the guys

[MissMisa]

Do you guys really prefer (as a generalisation) women with blonde hair and fake tans?

Also, what about weight? I know all guys are different, but if you were going to speak for yourself and such, do you find the models in magazines attractive in general? I've had mixed responses such as, 'yes, they're hot and that's the reason they're there,' and also 'no, not particularly, they are clearly airbrushed and bear no resemblence to a real woman.' Thoughts? Guess that's my answer already but still curious

Do you find women with strong opinions intimidating or off-putting? What about a girl with hobbies that aren't typically 'girly?'

I sometimes get odd remarks from girls because I like random stuff.

[ryuurui]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Do you find women with strong opinions intimidating or off-putting? What about a girl with hobbies that aren't typically 'girly?'

One word. Sexy.

To the weight. I have done sports since i was 10, so i like active girls (physically and mentally). Catwalk models - no way. They are freaky.
I like it fit but without rattling bones, please.

I am mixed, so I like mixed girls. I prefer brunettes with darker skin but naturally darker. I do not like very pale skin. I hate artificial blonds, fake boobs and other nightmares.

Girl needs to be natural like her smile. If it is forced, she is not open and content with herself. It won';t start my engine. But give me a chick who has some spunk, knows what she wants and is not 鼻が高い type, and i am in for the adventure.

[TrainOfThought]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Do you guys really prefer (as a generalisation) women with blonde hair and fake tans?

Also, what about weight? I know all guys are different, but if you were going to speak for yourself and such, do you find the models in magazines attractive in general? I've had mixed responses such as, 'yes, they're hot and that's the reason they're there,' and also 'no, not particularly, they are clearly airbrushed and bear no resemblence to a real woman.' Thoughts? Guess that's my answer already but still curious

Do you find women with strong opinions intimidating or off-putting? What about a girl with hobbies that aren't typically 'girly?'

I sometimes get odd remarks from girls because I like random stuff.

I really can't stand the "platinum blonde hair with way too much tan" look.
I think it's horrible, and I really can't see myself finding it attractive on anyone.
I don't know, maybe it's 'cause I'm Swedish. Most girls around here with that look are really loud, obnoxious and come across as slow quite often. They stop being loud when they're like 18 or so, but I've yet to have a decent conversation with a girl with that look, regardless of age.
I've talked to "girls" a few years older than me (I'm 22) and they STILL act like that.
Here's an extreme example of what I mean (I know her hair isn't blonde, but yeah, you get the point!):
YouTube - amiofsweden.blogg.se - fixar håret
I believe she's 17 or 18 years old...


Other than that I don't really care about skin colour/ethnicity, though I've noticed that I've found very few really dark girls attractive.

And the weight thing... hmm, that's a tough one tbh. I think I prefer "petite" girls, but then again I've dated a girl who weighs about as much as me lol.
If I said I think most models are ugly I'd be lying.
Most of them look ok imo. Actually, a lot of them are really hot, but I think pretty/beautiful/cute > hot any day of the week.
I mean, hot girls are hot (obviously), but I can't see myself getting attracted to a girl like that in the same way I would to a very pretty and cute girl.

I get intimidated by very few things, and a girl who knows what she wants is definitly not one of them! I have to agree with ryuurui on that one. It's sexy as HELL. Hmmm, maybe that's why I'm usually attracted to older girls..?
A girl with hobbies that aren't very girly isn't off-putting at all imo.
On the contrary I find it really awesome. My gf is a gamer and her favourite artist is Marilyn Manson.
Talking about games, weight lifting and (good) music is a lot more interesting than talking about Strictly Come Dancing, Vogue magazine and ugly chav girls.

[Ryzorian]

Athletic, petite. I suppose, prolly cause the first girl I really dated was South Korean and stood 4 foot 9 inches and maybe weighed 95 pounds. Before you all get all Lolita on me, she was 2 years older than I was, just really tiny.

As to Old Fashioned males.. I used to do that but with women's lib so prevalent these days I decided to treat them "equally". Wich to me means treat them like I would guys. Guy's don't generally do all those niceities for each other, with guys it's understood that they can do it themselves.

[tipsygypsy]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Do you guys really prefer (as a generalisation) women with blonde hair and fake tans?

oh yeah. men like blond hair, brown hair, black hair, and platinum like white hair. they all are good. and yes tanned skin is nice. snow white is also nice. midnight ebony is nice. mellow yellow nice. ruby red nice. men jus like women.

Also, what about weight? I know all guys are different, but if you were going to speak for yourself and such, do you find the models in magazines attractive in general? I've had mixed responses such as, 'yes, they're hot and that's the reason they're there,' and also 'no, not particularly, they are clearly airbrushed and bear no resemblence to a real woman.' Thoughts? Guess that's my answer already but still curious

models are hot. but they leave me the feeling of chill at the same time. They sure are hot, but they often look so artificial.

Do you find women with strong opinions intimidating or off-putting? What about a girl with hobbies that aren't typically 'girly?'
I sometimes get odd remarks from girls because I like random stuff.

girly ones, boyish ones both are attractive. in conclusion, most men think most women are attractive.

[evanny]

to missamissa.
as long as those opinions are not stupid, then no...

weight is not important, proportions are.

hair colour just as weight is not important as long it all looks good.

[Ghap]

Originally Posted by tipsygypsy

oh yeah. men like blond hair, brown hair, black hair, and platinum like white hair. they all are good. and yes tanned skin is nice. snow white is also nice. midnight ebony is nice. mellow yellow nice. ruby red nice. men jus like women.



models are hot. but they leave me the feeling of chill at the same time. They sure are hot, but they often look so artificial.



girly ones, boyish ones both are attractive. in conclusion, most men think most women are attractive.

This guy gets thumbs up from me!

[ryuhebi13]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Do you guys really prefer (as a generalisation) women with blonde hair and fake tans?

Also, what about weight? I know all guys are different, but if you were going to speak for yourself and such, do you find the models in magazines attractive in general? I've had mixed responses such as, 'yes, they're hot and that's the reason they're there,' and also 'no, not particularly, they are clearly airbrushed and bear no resemblence to a real woman.' Thoughts? Guess that's my answer already but still curious

Do you find women with strong opinions intimidating or off-putting? What about a girl with hobbies that aren't typically 'girly?'

I sometimes get odd remarks from girls because I like random stuff.

As a generalisation No. I've always tended to go for darker types, brunettes or black. It didn't stop me dating one girl who had short platinum white hair, but she had no fake tan so that was all good. I just can't go for fake tan and blonde.

Weight: So long as they aren't model thin where the bones are sticking through the skin it's not a major factor. So long as the girl is comfortable with herself, that's good enough for me.

Models in a magazine? Some may turn my head but as you said, I know they've been airbrushed and tweeked. Give me a real woman anyday.

Lastly, Not in the slightest. I LOVE strong women. Keeps it spicy As for girls who aren't "girly" I find that really cute. Not in a condescending pat on the head cute, but a turn on. I like a girl who may be a gamer or a geek and mess about with engines. It adds something extra to her personality I think.

[junicorn]

Originally Posted by ryuhebi13

As a generalisation No. I've always tended to go for darker types, brunettes or black. It didn't stop me dating one girl who had short platinum white hair, but she had no fake tan so that was all good. I just can't go for fake tan and blonde.

Weight: So long as they aren't model thin where the bones are sticking through the skin it's not a major factor. So long as the girl is comfortable with herself, that's good enough for me.

Models in a magazine? Some may turn my head but as you said, I know they've been airbrushed and tweeked. Give me a real woman anyday.

Lastly, Not in the slightest. I LOVE strong women. Keeps it spicy As for girls who aren't "girly" I find that really cute. Not in a condescending pat on the head cute, but a turn on. I like a girl who may be a gamer or a geek and mess about with engines. It adds something extra to her personality I think.

Oh come on guys... be honest... Most of you don't want boy girls.. alright, but you also don't want fat girls either. I have freaking gorgeous friends who are "big boned" not even fat, and no one really wants to date them.

[junicorn]

Originally Posted by junicorn

Oh come on guys... be honest... Most of you don't want boy girls.. alright, but you also don't want fat girls either. I have freaking gorgeous friends who are "big boned" not even fat, and no one really wants to date them.

boy=bony...