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06-02-2008, 02:21 PM

xpp.
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at least uve seen him b4 leiizzz.


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06-02-2008, 08:38 PM

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I know long distance relationships can work if you really want them too. I mean, sometimes life gets in the way and you're not able to keep it up anymore, but don't lose hope! I mean heck, I met a boy from Australia (I'm in the US) on a forum I go to and we fell in love. Now we're pretty serious boyfriend and girlfriend and we haven't even met, but are planning to soon. xD

Now a lot of people would say it was crazy keeping a relationship like mine up, but it's amazing what people can have if they really put their mind to it.

And I wish you all the luck with your relationship. =)
Same with me! Okay, my loved one lives in Tokyo, but anything else is the same! *lol*
This year I am gonna visit him for one month, although 10.000 km lie between us. I think a relationship can work when you put enough effort into it. And if you really love someone, there might be plenty possibilities, like moving to his/her country/state and start working there. At least that is what I am thinking about.
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sweetlolitachii please talk to this guy i like! he is ...i guess afraid cuz of the long distance...he lives in a different country than i . n we never really...met because of that. but i really do like him. i really do! i dont know what to do! im upset because this is what is keeping his heart from me....we agreed that we'd be friends to make him happy but...im miserable...TT_ TT
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06-21-2008, 09:53 AM

@ strawberryshinya
Of course I don't know the exact facts (like which countries you are from, your age, how long you do know each other etc. - but important facts), but sometimes things turn out that way. At least it is very honest of him to tell you that distance is a problem for him. Sometimes couples break up after years because of distance.
I know you must feel horrible now. Maybe you should talk to him about your feelings. But if he doesn't want to try it, you cannot force it. It is possible that you end up even more hurt than now.
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06-21-2008, 10:08 AM

hi i am Brittany and i may be 14 years old but you said he is cute you like him but you don't realy know him but go for it this way you can get to know him and have a boyfriend.>^_^<



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06-21-2008, 10:12 AM

good advise katja that is true if he realt does like you maybe he can see you some time soon and you could make plans to see each other whenever he can so be happy.>^_^<



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06-21-2008, 11:30 AM

thanks. ^_^....

but he lives in the middle east and i in the u.s.


i respect his space. n if he is truly happy as he is, who am i to be selfish n take that all away? i may not be happy my self but at least he is. thats all i want.

i just wish one day to meet him in person. even if it is just to be friends...
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06-21-2008, 11:47 AM

kokunin that was not very nice to cuss so much she really likes him so dont ruin it for her i had a long distance relationship and it worked out fine i lived in Mexico four three years and before i left a guy that lived next door asked me out and now im in the USA i broke up with him though because i couldnt afford
to phone him and at the time i didnt have a computer or cell phone now i wish that we could have stayed together but i have met new people my heart has been broken so many times it cant be broken any more but i will always feel pain.>^_^<



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06-21-2008, 04:08 PM

Uhm well...
Long distance relationships can and do work, but only if you, yourself have the self patience in waiting a long time for something to happen.

For me, I'm an impulsive person, i always think in the sense that 'what if i'm waiting for this certain person, and a better one comes by and i miss it?'

But then again, thats me. I think, firstly you should really ask yourself, whether you'd be willing to give up alot of time for this relationship? Are you patient enough?


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06-22-2008, 12:14 AM

ill be patient. im more than willing to wait.. but he doesnt want a relationship. so ill be his friend. if he happens to fall for some one closer to home...ill cheer him on.
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