Long Distance

[Yahiko]

Originally Posted by allie2590

I think they can work, but they have never worked for me. It's so much harder when one person or both are insecure. And because you can't be together all the time, there is a lack of trust, I find. But that's only how it's worked out (or not worked) for me. Other people may have better luck with it.

Many people beleive long distance relationships are dumb because you never see the person, well yuo can send pictures, and you can web cam, and you can plan to meet. I think Japanese girls are very cute and I wish to move to Japan and meet people and learn the language. And when ever my friends see an Asian person they automatically say Chinese, I hate that. Because there are Cambodians Japanese Singapore and much more! If I really meet a girl I really love over the internet I will try to meet her in realy life when I'm old enough.

But yeah, my opinion on long range relationships are they can be wonderful or they can go no where. Depends on where YOU take it.

[Laine]

honestly, i wouldn't be able to have a long distance relationship. i would want to experience every aspect of the person, be able to evaluate them with all of my senses - touch, taste, smell, sight, hearing. i can't consider it dating if there's only an exchange of words (and photos, you could say).

besides all that, two people can be intellectually compatible, but that doesn't mean they're sexually compatible -- just as two people can have intense sexual chemistry, but no emotional connection (which is actually similar to what i'm experiencing right now, but i digress.)

anyway, i'm sure other people can enjoy long distance relationships but for me, personally, no way.

(besides all that, i'm basically commitment-phobic. so i don't see a desire to bond myself with someone so far away when there are so many other people available right in the fine city in which i live.)

[mangapunkrocker]

I'm not just talking about Japanese guys...I know most girls on this website would just love a japanese boyfriend (am i right?) but does it work?

[emmygirl121]

I don't know if it works....

But i'm right there with ya for a Japanese boyfriend.

[mangapunkrocker]

of course! we would all fight over the guy, i can just see it...scary...

[emmygirl121]

yeah. But the percentage of Non-Japanese people in this forum totally crushes the number of japanese people here .

[mangapunkrocker]

it's okay, we can still hope can't we??? maybe we'll make friends with some japanese guys!!!

[emmygirl121]

I hope... thats what i came here originally for..
but everyone I have made friends with is from USA

[mangapunkrocker]

don't lose hope, girl. You might find him, just keep trying!! never give up k? and if it doensn't work out just go to myspace and find a hot japanese guy and talk to him there....but remember not everybody tells the truth like me on the internet...

[emmygirl121]

i know....

I wonder if there is a USA forum. where foreign people try to meet Americans.