Long Distance

[xYinniex]

Originally Posted by Saruri

I know I would like to have a japanese boyfriend too,but fr now that would not work,I know that. Maybe when I'm older and I can travel a lot or move out to japan...

hmm, it sounds like,[no offence] that really, it's just a fantasy of yours. The person you love/like, usually, i don't think it has anything to do with what race they are, or you want them to be.

but you know, whatever happens, happens

but personally, Long distance relationships won't work with the type of person i am, because i need to be secure that i'm liked[loved maybe].

and i get bored easily. yeah, i do. But hey, everyone's imperfect.

[Michieru]

Lets hope you have better luck than me with long distance relationships

*turns cold while recalling those memories*


well it is very different for each person with Distant relationships. while mine went horribly horribly wrong my best friend found their love in a long distance relationship

my cousin married the coolest person in the world who he met online and they are very happy

its always a good idea to give it a try

your not losing anything by jumpin in

[kokunin]

hold on, are we seriously alking about long distance relationships where the person has NEVER seen the guy, and you tust him?

[Suki]

Originally Posted by kokunin

hold on, are we seriously talking about long distance relationships where the person has NEVER seen the guy, and you tust him?

Yes, that is exactly what we are talking about.

I think that if you are "dating" someone on the Internet and then one day you meet a guy you really like, the fact that you have an "online boyfriend" won't be enough to stop you from going out with this new guy. And that's not bad, that's being human.

[Saruri]

Originally Posted by xYinniex

hmm, it sounds like,[no offence] that really, it's just a fantasy of yours. The person you love/like, usually, i don't think it has anything to do with what race they are, or you want them to be.

but you know, whatever happens, happens

but personally, Long distance relationships won't work with the type of person i am, because i need to be secure that i'm liked[loved maybe].

and i get bored easily. yeah, i do. But hey, everyone's imperfect.

Lol,it's not the kind of race i'm falling for. It's the type of person they are that affect me...

[SeeD]

all the things that i've read here bring me memories about one special song

Slipknot - Vermilion

She seemed dressed in all of me
Stretched across my shame,
All the torment and the pain
Leaked through and covered me.

I'd do anything to have her to myself,
Just to have her for myself.

Now I don't know what to do,
I don't know what to do
When she makes me sad.

She is everything to me,
The unrequited dream,
The song that no one sings,
The unattainable.
She's a myth that I have to believe in,
All I need to make it real is one more reason.

I don't know what to do,
I don't know what to do when she makes me sad.

But I won't let this build up inside of me.
I won't let this build up inside of me.
I won't let this build up inside of me.
I won't let this build up inside of me.

A catch in my throat, choke,
Torn into pieces, I won't. No.

I don't want to be this but
I won't let this build up inside of me (won't let this build up inside of me) x4

She isn't real.
I can't make her real.
She isn't real.
I can't make her real.

[Saruri]

Next month I'm finally going to meet my Penpal from Japan (he's soooo cute). It happens he stays in germany for about 4 weeks,and I only live about 2 hours away from there. A great opportunity tough...
I don't know wether it will work out,but if it will not,I still have a new nice friend,isn't it

[Maku]

There are tons of threads like this already.
Long distance can work if you have a huge amount of trust for that person.
I, however, would prefer a shorter distance of them being in the same country (in my case it would be the whole of the UK, including Northern Ireland), because then you would be able to see them more often.
The only exception for me personally is if you may be moving to the country they reside in and vice versa.

[deadthinker]

for some ppl it works others it doesnt
luckily for me it does yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey hehe

[DietWeebs]

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