has your heart ever been broken?

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by xX2DXx

@TalnSG-
Lol yes I agree the good memories are worth it but do you really get over it? I hope so ^_^!.

Eventually it all heals, but sometimes it takes years. I find it odd thinking about them now, but the one that hurt the worst at the time, also healed the fastest. I think it was because it was over so suddenly, unexpectedly and completely. In other words it was a clean slash, no tearing and bruising from repeated blows to the heart. Except for the one at 41, who did a lot more damage than just to my heart, I would take each of them back again in a heartbeat.

[xGatck]

my heart has been broken repeatly;
seems like i will never learn my mistakes..

[rebam]

Originally Posted by xX2DXx

Recently Ive just ended my relationship with a man, he was older than me way older than me but I really started to like him. I knew it was wrong falling for him but I couldn't help it, it just happened.
He was my teacher and soccer coach.
I know its wrong but I can't help the way I feel about him, he always makes me laugh and I felt good around him. He confessed to me that he was having feelings for me but that nothing could happen between a student and a teacher.
He also had a wife who works at the same school and I even had dinner with her, she found out about what was going on between me and her husband. She said if I left him alone and didn't bother him again then she wouldn't tell no one about what had happened. I left it to him to choose and he picked her over me.
I was hurt by it and I felt mad and sad at the same time I can't discribe how i feel right now, it just hurts to think about him. Even though we didn't sleep together and only kissed a couple of times, I really liked him,
He was the total opposite of what I am, he never drinks, he doesn't smoke and he doesn't swear. He doesn't party and he doesn't like to get drunk. I love to have fun but with him I could have fun with out drinking and with out smoking.
He's 28 years old, athletic and teaches in math as well as girls soccer, he doesn't have any kids.
I'm still on the soccer team and I still try my best for him cause I love the attention from him, I like to see him smile but I can't help but feel jealous of his wife. She gets to cook for him and she gets to spend time with him everyday. She gets to do what I wanted to do for him. I use to hang out in his room during lunch with the soccer team but at the end of the year I couldn't and so I just hung around outside with some friends I know.
I hope I can get over it soon though and leave these feelings behind me so they don't cloud my thoughts.

i know how you feel i have a crush on my teacher and we are 18 years apart and what hurts me the most is that i know ill never be able to be with him because he cant date a student

[rebam]

Originally Posted by gn1225

i dont know if my heart was actually broken..
because what happened involves my friend.
see the thing is that we stopped hanging out for a while
and i decided to ask him why this was happening.
and he tells me that his parents think im a stalker and thats why.
i thought he was kidding @ first, but you could tell he wasnt like by the expression on his face.
i felt like i wanted to cry and..i dont know, i felt sad and also angry.

that really sucks ive had people not be my driend anymre for no apparent reason

[rebam]

Originally Posted by asukiitar

HI EVERYONE WHO READS THIS!!!! and about the question... yeah....im 16and my hearth has
been broken for the last 20 years...lol

*asukiitar*

nice. that sucks lol

[rebam]

Originally Posted by kiyoshisensei

Yes. When i was 13. My best friend saw that I was too shy to ask this one gurl out that I was also friends with, so he decided to give it a try... even though he knew I really like her... possibly even loved her. But that was 5 years ago. It's amazing how people change. I forgave him and completely lost all interest in her x] And I'm not a shy lil thing anymore!

thats cool

[rebam]

Originally Posted by deathnotegirl

my heart was just broken 3 hours ago... and i can't stop crying... i wish i could... and he broke it for a stupid reason too... just b/c i haven't slept in 2 days he was so mad at me we got into a fight and now i feel alone... he was my best friend and i really miss him and need him... i'm feel bad that i didn't sleep...

well i know this is a liilte late but i really hope you feel better!!!

[rebam]

Originally Posted by TalnSG

Hmm, yeah its been broken and scarred more than a few times.
The one that hurt the most were at age 14, 16, 19, 41, and 47.
But you know what? The good memories and lessons learned are worth it .... every time.
And eventually you move on.
Hmmm, from that pattern it seems like I am over due...... uh-oh!

lol how old are you???

[xX2DXx]

Originally Posted by rebam

i know how you feel i have a crush on my teacher and we are 18 years apart and what hurts me the most is that i know ill never be able to be with him because he cant date a student

Hai it hurts specially when you hang out with them all the time and you feel lonely after not being around them lol but I'm happy I saw him today at Mr.Japan (Japanese Resturant here) I saw him after I was putting in my application and I was happy lol. To bad he was there with his wife @_@ she's a nice person but mean in the classroom x.X I hope I met another guy like him though, he was really different ^-^.

[ghodassama]

im envious of who "tasted" LOVE...I dont know how it feels....but the betrayal must be really painful...