has your heart ever been broken?

[TalnSG]

This isn't exactly what I think most here would regard as heartbreak, but has been pretty close to it for me. A few months ago I was driven by a compulsion for honesty to clarify some things about myself to a person who had become a prized friend. Some mutual friends saw a budding romance, but I doubted it even then because I was very aware that we had deep rooted differences in our perception of the universe. As dreaded, once all my cards were on the table, this person walked away. To me his reaction was justified and once it happened I resigned myself to having lost someone surprisingly important to me. While I moved on without much outward effect, it had hurt.

But yesterday, after months of silence, he left a message asking me out to dinner. Don't know when, where, or why, but hopefully he has made peace with our differences ..... or maybe it was just serious timing issues. Whatever the reason for the silence and now communication being restored, it's good. Sometimes you just have to trust that things happen for a reason and in the long run its usually for the best.

[zhangxuejing]

i hope eveything will be good for you!
i lost my lover a few weeks ago.
He never forget his exgirlfriend.O(∩_∩)O~~~

[zhangxuejing]

Originally Posted by TalnSG

This isn't exactly what I think most here would regard as heartbreak, but has been pretty close to it for me. A few months ago I was driven by a compulsion for honesty to clarify some things about myself to a person who had become a prized friend. Some mutual friends saw a budding romance, but I doubted it even then because I was very aware that we had deep rooted differences in our perception of the universe. As dreaded, once all my cards were on the table, this person walked away. To me his reaction was justified and once it happened I resigned myself to having lost someone surprisingly important to me. While I moved on without much outward effect, it had hurt.

But yesterday, after months of silence, he left a message asking me out to dinner. Don't know when, where, or why, but hopefully he has made peace with our differences ..... or maybe it was just serious timing issues. Whatever the reason for the silence and now communication being restored, it's good. Sometimes you just have to trust that things happen for a reason and in the long run its usually for the best.

i hope everything will be good for you. O(∩_∩)O~~~
i lost my lovers,he never forget his exgirlfriend even i try my best to do everything for him.
and i also never forget him...

[jac8295]

ya i went out with this girl i really loved her but i was younger and she was older and i guess she wanted something i could not give and i'm almost ova her but its still hard because i cant tell if she still likes me because shes stilll so nice to me ahhhh im so confused but i know shes not the one for me so i need to get ova her but its still hard.

[webzine9909]

Originally Posted by jac8295

ya i went out with this i really loved her but i was younger and she was older and i guess she wanted something i could not give and i'm almost ova her but its still hard because i cant tell if she still likes me because shes stilll so nice to me ahhhh im so confused but i know shes not the one for me so i need to get ova her but its still hard.

Nyahaha ,
you've been undered by your friend ,
how rude!

[otome]

yah...a lot of times..hehe..it's a part of life.. part of growing up i guess?

[rebam]

Originally Posted by jac8295

ya i went out with this girl i really loved her but i was younger and she was older and i guess she wanted something i could not give and i'm almost ova her but its still hard because i cant tell if she still likes me because shes stilll so nice to me ahhhh im so confused but i know shes not the one for me so i need to get ova her but its still hard.

yeah its always hard to let go of one you love or loved at one point or another.

[KarmaEffect]

Yes, lasted for three months. Worse feeling on earth, I don't wish that upon no one.

[SleepAddict]

I was 18 maybe 19 she was 17 about 18. We dated for a while she was a sweet girl, until i found she was screwing a 62 year old man. First loves usualy always end in heart break.

[NanteNa]

Oh, it seems second time is coming up. lol. ^^v I have no idea why I keep picking out the wrong people. -sigh-