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02-10-2010, 11:19 AM
Hehe,
Seriously guys,the key is to always make sure that the reltionship is not 'the be all and end all' of your life. Sure, a relationship should be built on trust and love, but what most people do is sacrifice their self respect, independence and dignity for that...and that, ironically, is what causes relationships to fail in the long run. Many reltionships consist of people with the mindset of do everything together, make every decision based on the effects to both partners. Sure, sometimes that is needed. But you need to keep some independence and do things for yourself and your own individual benefit. From my friends and the ones in stable, long term relationships, this is exactly what is happening. And if and when your relationship does break up, remember...you still have yourself. And now, it's party time  
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02-10-2010, 08:27 PM
my heart was torn to pieces a few months ago.
i'm 17 years old and because of my strict family i've never been allowed to date. last summer i met a guy that was just a little younger than me but we were friends pretty quickly. eventually i fell for him, so imagine the joy i felt when he one day confessed feelings for me. so we went out for a while and i was so happy cuz it was my very first bf and the first time i was in love. then one day he sent me a message telling me that he cant be with me anymore and to never contact him again. at first i assumed that maybe his parents found out about me (his parents were both racist) so i didnt feel too bad but after a while he contacted me again and we started talking. of course i still had strong feelings for him but i pretty much wanted to die when he said "i didnt even really like you that much, i just felt sorry for you". i cant remember how many months ago that was and he and i are friends now (i cant help it, im a forgiving person ^_^) but i still cry sometimes because what he said made me feel so pathetic. although i still have some strands of feeling for him, i dont want him back because i want to be with someone who loves me for real, not someone who simply pities me. and even if he did love me somewhat i need someone who is willing to work problems out with me, not just dump me and try to run away. augh, i feel like such a luzer!  why did i let myself believe him this entire time?!1 2 3 step step jump step step grope step step touch step step kiss and *SLap!!! (\__/) (='.'=) This is Bunny. Copy and paste bunny into your (")_(") signature to help him gain world domination
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02-11-2010, 03:27 PM
yeah, i know that feeling. -_-
1 2 3 step step jump step step grope step step touch step step kiss and *SLap!!! (\__/) (='.'=) This is Bunny. Copy and paste bunny into your (")_(") signature to help him gain world domination
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02-21-2010, 07:15 AM
In a huge misunderstanding between me and my best friend, I had an argument with the girl I loved. We both said things to each other that would break anybodies heart just listening. In the end we both walked away from it saying we were gonna be happy without each other and we should just drop all forms of contacting each other.
Now.. the next day, my best friend and I figure things out between each other.. and he had to hear me cry like a baby over how wrong I was that I could be happy without her. I was an idiot.. and I wish I had a way to tell her that. If he took back every word he said.. does that mean he took back that he loves you too? Isn't it just enough that he loves you and isn't afraid of the consequences of loving you? Is it the fact you didn't lie to him or that he just believes every word you say? You say hes an idiot for loving you, he says I've always been an idiot, who just happens to love you.
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03-03-2010, 12:11 AM
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03-03-2010, 12:54 AM
i have ,
he was my friend i like being able to be at his side and was always happy to talk with him. i always thought that he might love me in return we were together all the time. i final told how i felt and asked him how he felt. he said he felt nothing. he never even saw me as a girl. i cryed so much after that. i had remained for a long time a lone before i fell in love with him and even longer time after my heart was broken. dances around the fairy ring bathed in the moon light glow a moon that waxes and wanes he will give to her to hold her in this dream forever.. a never ending moon light night...
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03-10-2010, 05:03 PM
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03-10-2010, 05:07 PM
yeah this girl and i were together for awhile and we had some issues that we couldnt work out together so weve decided to be friends but it still hurts to know i cant have her because of the issues we had when we were together.
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