has your heart ever been broken? - Page 87

Kayci · (#861 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Akihiko

There is not 'bright side' in the ocean of blatant pessimism.

Then thats your own damn fault for being too cowardly to try again.
A famous Japanese proverb says "Fall down seven times, stand up eight."

You keep trying. And trying.

Katianura · (#862 (**permalink**))

My heart has been broken a couple of times. It makes me feel like I can never love again. Then one comes along again and spins me in the web. The facade never lasts. They break me again. Then each time I fall weaker. I don't think I can love again... There are times when I can't even get an attraction to a person. But love is all around us.. So how can you not fall? It's impossible not to.

Chiquita · (#863 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Tsuzuki

Love is still a illusion !!!! a strange thought or fancy from the head ...

I totally agree with you ><

protheus · (#864 (**permalink**))

The definition of illusion doesn't apply to love. An illusion doesn't influence substance, and love influences a lot the body in many forms, especially chemical changes, which are physical changes.
For someone who hasn't yet felt real love, it might look like an illusion, but it isn't, its far from that.

JojoBizarre · (#865 (**permalink**))

Twice, took me 3 years to get over it.

Now I have been with my love for almost 5 yers. (november the 26th)

dogsbody70 · (#866 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by JojoBizarre

Twice, took me 3 years to get over it.

Now I have been with my love for almost 5 yers. (november the 26th)

loving someone who doesn't love you can be very painful but far better to keep away from them than continue with hopeless love.

adem940 · (#867 (**permalink**))

hmm..dunno...I am not even sure if I have a heart....

CoolNard · (#868 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by protheus

The definition of illusion doesn't apply to love. An illusion doesn't influence substance, and love influences a lot the body in many forms, especially chemical changes, which are physical changes.
For someone who hasn't yet felt real love, it might look like an illusion, but it isn't, its far from that.

Actually, an illusion may influence one's psychological and cognitive functions. Symbiotically, from those functions, biological and physical functions are affected and may undergo changes. That's why sometimes hynosis works and hallucinations can drive people to suicide.

Haven't you ever heard the sayings, "Blinded by love" or "Love is blind"?

Those can be said for "real love", too.

Love, I believe, is an illusion at first sight, but gradually, through circumstances and time, can become real, as illusions can. Or they may prove to be mere superficial/artificial illusions that eventually break, for a lot of reasons, one of which is the heart break described here.

Katianura · (#869 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by adem940

hmm..dunno...I am not even sure if I have a heart....

are you sure about that? you should have a heart lol

LycanOtaku · (#870 (**permalink**))

Yeah, I've had my heart broken a couple of times... After being in a verbally abusive relationship, it's been hard to regain my old confidence again... Follow that up with 2 relationships that I was cheated on, and my trust is now gone... So, until I regain my trust in others and my former confidence, I am swearing off guys... I'm tired of the constant heartbreak... Granted, it's now been about three years already since I've been in a relationship, I only just now feel like my broken heart is healing.

Funny, the fickleness of emotions...