A little question for you single people. - Page 16

value1984 · (#151 (**permalink**))

i think that the problem is when you have no friends, ore they all have girlfriends/boyfriends....

Nel · (#152 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Originally Posted by Okashi

Do you enjoy being single?

I'm single and I'm enjoying it a lot at the moment. I do know for myself, I will not last like this forever though. For all the things I have to do nowadays, I don't really have time to worry about making someone happy. Unless they would understand that, I'll have to stick with having no relationship.

How about you?

In your situation, I would be glad to god being single. Making someone happy? who me? hell naw, i don't get into relationship for anyone to be happy or for me being happy because of anyone. Making happiness dependable of others is to degrade both, happiness and yourself. Now sharing happiness is another thing, that is what love is supposed to be, give without expecting anything. Give happiness, not making happiness, see the difference?

So, im single also and I feel i may have opportunity whit someone, but I also don't feel im up to relationship right now. Being single is just right for me, I can have my time and think and study and dream about everything. Single is way to good to be unappreciated and single-ism doesn't have that stigma that all girls u liked are hitting on you when you get a girlfriend lol!

Be proud of being single and do not expect anything from the first "cutegirlthatulike", this is how it works, if you expect, want, wish ,etc = doesn't happen or it is way too complicated to make it happen.

nel

pumpum · (#153 (**permalink**))

i am single also !

just make sure my gf doesnt find out !

DragonShadow · (#154 (**permalink**))

Single is waaaaaaaay boring, not to mention not very fulfilling. The freedom is pretty sweet, but otherwise, meh...

TalnSG · (#155 (**permalink**))

Single again for most of the last 8 years. It can get lonely. But it is not as stifling as being in a relationship that lasts only out of habit or fear of loneliness, or as painful as being in one that becomes hostile.

sweetlolitachii · (#156 (**permalink**))

I'm single and I think it would be weird if I was married now... -_-; coughonly13cough I would only marry if it was someone I really loved, if he was responsible, and willing to become a Christian. Even then I would be hesitant. =/ And I don't plan on giving birth to children. If I ever want a kid, I'm going to adopt one. xD

But yes, I love being single. And having a boyfriend.

jasminoodle · (#157 (**permalink**))

its not fair i really like someone but they dont like me ill never find anyone like them
so basically, when you hav been single all your life (mind you im not that old anyway but still )NO!

hennaz · (#158 (**permalink**))

I guess I am single at the moment, although I'd much rather have a girlfriend.

Unfortunately, my crush lives far away in Yokohama, and I hope that once I see her again, we could be together...

deathnotegirl · (#159 (**permalink**))

well i am kind of single not really... but i enjoy being single... i have more freedom and everything not having to worry about another person...i hate being in relationships...

Rocco21 · (#160 (**permalink**))

I'm single at the moment. I think being single or not it depends from the character of a person. Now for example I enjoy being sigle, but it'll not be the same for the future. Being alone is not beautiful at all, but in some moment is useful to enjoy life and understand many things that a person cannot understand if engaged.